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Sex Prescription Part Two

Prescription 53: Fingers in Vagina.

Q. How many fingers can a girl such as me put up in my vagina?

A. As long as you're comfortable and not in pain, you may insert as many fingers as you like into the vagina. Start with one and slowly add one finger at a time to find out how many fingers you like.
As a side note, any finger insertion requires that the fingers and fingernails are thoroughly cleaned with soap. Also beware of hangnails as they may cut the vaginal wall and can cause pain that lasts for many days.

Prescription 54: Viagra for Women.

Q. Have they come out with a Viagra for women yet? I've seen so many different ads for libido enhancers for women, but I don't know who to believe. Anything you can offer would be really appreciated.

A. First off, most of those ads you see are scams. There is no drug that will just "turn a woman on" without other stimulations. In fact, there isn't even a drug that will do that for men. Viagra simply increases blood flow to the penis, it's not an aphrodisiac. What makes it even a larger challenge for women is that they often require much more mental and emotional stimulation to become aroused and it may be a little while before they figure out how to put that in a pill.

Prescription 55: Decrease Brest size Naturally.

Q. Other than breast reduction surgery, how can I decrease my breast size?

A. The only non-surgical breast reduction method is by eating healthy and exercising. Most of your breast is made up of fat. When your body burns more calories in a day than you take in, it must find fat to burn from somewhere. The bad news for you is that you have no control over where your body chooses to take the fat from. This is why some people are stomach heavy and others are hip heavy. There is absolutely no way for you to choose where the fat will come off.

Prescription 56: Why men & women Masturbate?

Q: Why do men and women masturbate when they can have sex?

A: Many people consider sex and masturbation two different experiences that fulfil different personal needs and drives. Sex is also not always convenient or available during some periods of sexual arousal.

Prescription 57: Viagra and Penis Growth.

Q: Is it true that Viagra can make the penis grow faster?

A: No, Viagra does not help the growth of penis in any way. Viagra is an anti-impotence drug that helps proper blood flow within the penis.

Prescription 58: Lubricant for Masturbation.

Q: I normally use shampoo as a lubricant for masturbation but I'm looking for something that has the same kind of feel but not too thin like baby oil. Can you recommend anything?

A: You can try cooking oils like olive oil, vegetable oil, lotion, Cream etc...

Prescription 59: Effect of Masturbation on height.

Q: If I masturbate from a young age, will it affect my growth -- meaning my height? Will my penis get bigger if I masturbate more? I'm really concerned about my height.

A: Your penis is getting bigger because you're getting an erection naturally. Masturbation has nothing to do with the growth of your penis. Masturbation will not affect your height or any other bodily growth in any way. Your height is determined by genetic factors, including your parent's DNA, your grandparent's height and your ancestor's height.

Prescription 60: Penis growth & Masturbation.

Q: Does masturbation affect the growth of your penis?

A: No. Penis growth is influenced by genetics and the pituitary gland in the brain.

Prescription 61: Noisy during Sex.

Q: I tend to moan and groan a lot when I have an orgasm. I feel really good and I just can't help it. The last girl I had sex with told me to keep quiet but I just couldn't. Is this normal?

A: Yes, this is quite normal. Often it is difficult for some people to "keep quiet" during sex. You can even experience involuntary vocal tics during sex which may sound like grunts.

Prescription 62: Wearing girls Panties and Masturbating.

Q: Sometime back I had an urge to wear girls panties.One day I was at my cousins house and I stoler a pair of her panties. When I reached him I wore the panties and I instantly got an erection. I continue to masturbate and ejaculate on them. Is there anything wrong with this

A: It might be a bit unusual to take your cousins panties and masturbate with them. However, I'm not going to go as far as to say that it is abnormal or illegal.

Prescription 63: Finger in ass masturbation technique.

Q: I have always wanted to try the "finger-in-ass" masturbation because I have heard that it greatly increases the orgasm and ejaculation. Is this true? How is the best way to go about it?

A: This is true for many men. However, there is no "best" way to do it. You can use your own fingers or sex toys to enhance your experience. My advice is to (1) take a shower before touching your anus (2) Also, use lubrication when trying anal masturbation. Most people say KY Jelly or other water based products are the best anal lubricants. Household cooking oils are also safe but they can be thick, messy and difficult to wash off.

Prescription 64: Minimum- maximum time for sex.

Q: What should be the minimum and maximum time a man should spend with a girl while having sex?

A: Minimum time: 40 seconds (I think that's the record). -- Maximum time: 18 days (I think that's the record). Actually this is something a man should discuss with the woman with whom he is having sex. Some women love quickies but most women like it to take a little more time than it takes for the average male to ejaculate. Men normally average around 5 minutes before then have an orgasm while women average about 15 minutes (or more) before they orgasm. Sexual relationships should take Time, Care, Communication, and Love (TCCL).

Prescription 65: Ejaculate on girlfriends face.

Q: I like to cum on the face of my girlfriend or in her mouth. Is this normal behaviour?

A: It is normal if you and more importantly, if your girlfriend is OK with it. Ask her whether she likes it or not. If she does, then don't worry about it. If not, maybe you should findout what she likes and do that.

Prescription 66: Beating naked wife.

Q. I love my wife very much and we have great understanding. But I have this peculiar problem that is creating trouble in my marital life that I just cannot resist myself from beating my wife when I see her naked. And after that, I really enjoy having sex with her. But somewhere inside my heart, I know that this is wrong and I am not treating my wife properly. Can you help me out?

Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:This is easily one of the most bizarre sexual queries I have come across. To tell you the truth your wife is the only person who can help you out of this sexual perversion. Your wife should simply put an end to this by refusing to take the beatings, which in every way are demeaning and humiliating for both the parties.

Prescription 67: Girlfriend not interested in Sex.

Q: I have a girlfriend that lives with me. She not interested in sex at all, but I am. I'm having anxiety over not having sex, and staying faithful to her.

A: That is a big problem indeed. Maybe she wants you to marry her before you have sex. Maybe she has had a bad experience earlier. Maybe she is scared of sex in general. Maybe she is scared of getting pregnant. There could by ANY number of reasons. Just let her know that you are faithful to her and sort things out by talking to her directly and ask her what exactly the problem is.

Prescription 68: Weight lifting and Penis Size.

Q: Does weight lifting effect penis size at all could it make it smaller or bigger or could it make it thicker.

A: No. There is no relation between lifting weights and genital size. It is actually related to the side effects of using steroids. Lots of weight lifters taking steroids have experienced genital problems. This has nothing to do with weight lifting. Just make sure you stay away from steroids.

Prescription 69: Am I a sex addicted?

Q: My husband and I dated for 6 years and have been married for a year and a half. His sex drive has always been somewhat low, but we were doing it at least once a month. The last time I got any was 9 months ago. I'm very much in love with him and can't make him understand that making love is the ultimate way to say I love you. He's only 47 and has even been taking Testostoral for about a month and that hasn't helped. Is it me or is it him? What should I do?

A: If he wants to solve his problem, he needs to see his doctor again. Your sex drive sounds reasonable to me, so you're not a "sex addict".

Prescription 70: Facing Sexual weakness.

Q. I am a 26-year-old man. I have been masturbating since 8-9 years for as frequently as two-three times a day. So far, I've not been in a physical relation with anybody. But, since one year, I am encountering sexual weakness and my penis is not lifting properly. Please help me as I am getting married within a year.

Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:You should see a sex specialist for a proper diagnosis and management of recently acquired erectile deficiency.

Prescription 71: Wife lost Sex drive.

Q. I am perturbed over my wife's reduced sex drive. She says that she do not feel like involving in a sexual act. I am not able to convince her for it. Could you please suggest some tablet or any other way to deal with this problem?

Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla:For improving the sexual desire of your wife you must go for counselling for a better understanding of your own personality so as to become a better husband and a better home-maker. Any positive change in your personality will improve her sexual drive. There are no medicines and no short cuts for increasing female libido.

Prescription 72: When to resume sex after delivery of baby?

Question. I am 29 years old. My wife had her delivery last month. We have abstained from sex for many months due to her pregnancy. I am extremely eager to initiate sex again. When can we resume our normal routine?

Answer. Her obstetrician should have told you both. You can restart if she has healed and has no discharge. In the meanwhile, what stops you from good foreplay and using your imagination?

Prescription 73: Problem with very big brests.

Question. I am 21 years old. My problem is that I have very big breasts. Is there any medicine to reduce their size?

Answer. You may have to live with them as only cosmetic surgery can help you. You have an advantage as many men are attracted to big breasts. Finally, you can try to put on more weight.

Prescription 74: Is consuming I- Pill harmful in the long run?

Question. I am 26 years old. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and had an I-pill within 72 hours. I did the same the next time we had sex. But this time, I got my periods the very next day, besides my normal periods. I didn't experience any unusual pain, but I am surprised as to how I had periods twice in the same month. Is consuming I-pill harmful in the long run?

Answer. The I-pill has a high amount of hormone so it is not wise to take it repeatedly. If intercourse is frequent, start with an oral contraceptive tablet. You will have to take it daily for 21 days, take a break for five days then restart. Otherwise, he should use a condom.

Prescription 75: Wife not responding properly during sex.

Question. I am 23-year-old married man. Whenever I have sex with my wife, I don’t get a proper response from her. She says she is shy. I have spoken with her about this. She promises that it won’t happen again, but the situation remains the same. I am not satisfied with my sex life at all. I am very passionate about sex. What should I do?

Answer. One of the great pleasures is to arouse your partner to active participation. It can only be possible when you are skilled at foreplay. Be gentle, stimulate her by touch – even her genital areas – and continue till she has an orgasm before having intercourse. Convince her that marriage has given both of you the chance to have sex the way you want to have it. Have patience and remember to never lower her self-esteem.

Prescription 76: Is it OK to undergo sex education before Marriage?

Question. I am a bachelor and will be getting married in a few days. Is it okay for adult men and women to undergo sex education before marriage? Or is it solely a trend adopted from the western civilization? Does it go against Indian customs, and eventually lead to social degradation?

Answer. Have you never heard of the famous frescos at Khajurao and the Kamasutra which has always helped our ancestors with premarital counselling? No social degradation will take place. On the contrary, your and your partner’s ignorance will be dispelled. There is much to be learnt about the first night, about keeping the fire of desire and companionship alive throughout your life and clearing the misconceptions about sex that you may have.

Prescription 77: Girlfriend experienced pain and bleeding after sex.

Question. I am 22 years old. Last week, I indulged in intercourse with my girlfriend. She experienced pain during the act and also suffered bleeding. She discussed this with her mother who said it shouldn't be a problem. We tried having intercourse again but faced the same problem. Is something wrong with my penis?

Answer. It's very unusual for a mother to suggest such a solution. Please arrange for her to visit a gynaecologist. Most probably, her hymen must have split during intercourse, causing a slight bleeding. Pain can accompany such situations.

Prescription 78: Fantasying about women and Masturbating.

Question. I am 23 years old. I have been masturbating since the last five years by looking at pictures of beautiful female actors. Every time I go to sleep, I fantasise about women and start masturbating. I want to stop this but I am unable to. What do I do? I have no girlfriends.

Answer. You are not the only person who fantasises. You will be happy to know that millions of lonely men all around the world do the same. It is a much safer way than visiting a sex worker.

Prescription 79: Can condom offer 100 percent protection from AIDS?

Question. Can condom offer 100 per cent protection from AIDS? Do expensive condoms offer better protection?

Answer. Not always. Accidents can occur even when using the best condoms. Always avoid unsafe sex.

Prescription 80: Wife does not cooperate in matters of sex.

Question. My wife doesn't co-operate with me in matters of sex. She is never interested. If I try to talk to her about sex, she doesn't reply. She's a good wife otherwise. What do I do?

Answer. Does she object to foreplay as well? When approached with love and care, most women are co-operative. Beyond that, I have no solution.

Prescription 81: Newly married guy Sex Queries.

Question. I am a 31-year-old man and my wife is 28 years old. We have been married for two weeks. While having intercourse, I inserted my penis in my wife’s urethral opening but my wife says that the vagina is right below that. Is that true? Also I ejaculated during the act, is she likely to get pregnant? My wife insists that I penetrate only after she is completely wet, what does that mean?

Answer. Listen to your wife, she is right. Foreplay like kissing, hugging, caressing etc will arouse her and she will lubricate i.e. get wet in the vagina. Direct your finger into the vagina to know its the right position and direction, then insert your penis. It is best that she bends her knees over her chest while in the act.

Prescription 82: How to prolong intercourse?

Question. I am a 34-year-old man, married since six years and have two children. My wife has had tubectomy since we don’t want any more children. As soon as I begin intercourse, my semen flows out and my penis shrinks. Please advise me how to prolong intercourse.

Answer. Firstly, try hard not get overexcited. Then, indulge in prolonged foreplay till she gets her first orgasm (do not worry if your penis subsides, it can rise again by touching.) Women can get more than one orgasm.
After she is suitably excited, gently enter her and wait inside till you are in control. Stop before you feel you have to ejaculate. Control and repeat the act 15 times before finishing. This will be more successful if she takes the woman on top position.

Prescription 83: Husband sexually not active.

Question. I am a married woman with a two-year-old daughter. My husband is not very active sexually and we have sex once in a week. I have tried talking to him but to no avail. Can Viagra help? What are its side effects? Currently my husband is on Topamac, Naprocin and Suminat 50 for his cluster headache.

Answer. I empathise with you, but you must understand that all of us have different levels of desire. Since your husband is having a medical problem, this is the best he can do. Perhaps you could indulge in foreplay like a massage or having bath together to satisfy yourself. Viagra does not help to increase desire. I am not competent to advise on drugs. So please consult a qualified doctor for the same.

Prescription 84: Will I-Pill help avoid Pregnancy?

Question. I am a 43-year-old woman. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend five times within a span of 10 hours. As precaution I had an I-Pill. Will that help avoid pregnancy?

Answer. No, it is recommended that the pill be taken after every fresh act. You may not get pregnant, but next time use a condom. Another option is to use a barrier tablet like Today which must be inserted in the vagina before the act.

Prescription 85: Will daily sex affect body?

Question. I got married a year ago and have been having intercourse every day. My friends say that daily intercourse affects the body. Is this true?

Answer. Yes, it will affect your body. It will make it stronger and make you a better lover.

Prescription 86: Husband fondles breasts very roughly.

Question. I am a 35-year-old woman. My husband fondles my breasts very roughly. If I complain about the pain, he retorts that it happens because I am weak. Can this be true? I am 5 feet 3 inches tall and weigh 53 kilos. I believe that since breasts are sensitive parts, he should be careful. Also, I want to put on weight. Please give me suggestions regarding the same.

Answer. It is surely very inconsiderate of your husband. It can be painful if breasts are handled this way. Talk to him in strong words. Do not let these comments lower your self confidence. To put on weight exercise daily and eat well. Add more carbohydrates like nuts and chocolates to your diet. See a doctor to ensure you are free of worm infestation.

Prescription 87: Ejaculate within 10 minutes of foreplay.

Question. I am 23-years-old and I am planning to have sex with my virgin girlfriend. The problem is that I ejaculate within 10 minutes of foreplay. Perhaps it is because of my habit of smoking and chewing tobacco. I decided to use Viagra but my friends say it will cause side effects to both of us.

Answer. Tobacco and smoking can affect your sexual health. I suggest you stop. Learn better self-control. Viagra will not lengthen the time period.

Prescription 88: How can woman enjoy sex after orgasm?

Question. In one of your earlier columns, you had mentioned that bringing the woman to orgasm before the intercourse helps extend pleasure. But I wonder how a woman can enjoy sex after her orgasm. Also, do women have specific points of pleasure? What are those?

Answer. Woman can get many orgasms during one intercourse as they are more capable of multiple orgasms compared to men. Pleasure points exist all over the body and should be discovered. Talk to your partner about this and ask her about her pleasure points. The clitoris is the most sensitive area.

Prescription 89: How to have sex with pregnant wife?

Question. I am a 21-year-old man. My wife is three months pregnant. Till what stage of pregnancy can we continue to have sex?

Answer. With the gynaecologist's permission, sexual activity can be carried on till the eighth month of pregnancy. You should adopt the position wherein she faces the wall and you approach from the rear. Of course, the decision to use this position must be consensual.

Prescription 90: How long can man and woman sistainw ithout sex?

Que. I have the following queries:
a) If after marriage, a couple has sex three or four times a week and then decide to stop having sex, will it affect their bodies?
b) How long can a man and woman sustain without having sex?

Ans. You are starting your marriage on the wrong foot! There is no such thing as getting used to it. A couple can always enjoy each act by using their imagination and fantasizing.

Prescription 91: Is it OK to watch blue films to educate sexually?

Que. Between the age of 20-25 years, is it ok to watch blue films to educate myself sexually, or should I try to get some practical experience. Also if blue films is the way to go, please tell me where I can get hold of these films.

Ans. Blue films are not the proper source to get sex education as they exaggerate a great deal. And neither is having sexual intercourse. Instead of learning, you can land up with a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted baby on your hands. Get a book like Sex Power by R. H. Dastur.

Prescription 92: Tried to have sex after mastubating and failed.

Que. I have tried to have sex soon after masturbating and failed. Is something wrong with me?

Ans. If a guy masturbates and ejaculates, he may not be able to get another erection right away. Most men experience a "refractory" period right after they ejaculate, during which time they can't get another erection. The length of the refractory period for young men is normally fairly brief -- less than 30-40 minutes. Sometimes it lasts only a few minutes. But every guy is different. The length of the refractory period increases with age. So, it usually takes an older man longer than a younger man to get another erection after he has ejaculated. Many women and some men can have multiple orgasms, one right after another, with no refractory period in between.

Prescription 93: Wife gets tired after masturbating

Que. My wife says she gets tired after masturbating. Is it true?

Ans. Why should she lie? This is pretty common. During arousal, people's hearts begin to beat faster and their blood pressure rises. After a certain amount of stimulation, people may experience orgasm -- the peak of sexual arousal when all the muscle that were tightened during sexual arousal relax, causing a very pleasurable feeling that may involve the whole body. During orgasm, painkilling chemicals calls endorphins are released into the bloodstream, causing intense pleasure and relaxation. Some people become very sleepy after orgasm.

Prescription 94: Do condoms make erections last longer?

Que. Can condoms help in making an erection last longer?

Ans. Yes. Some men find that it takes them longer to have an orgasm and ejaculate when they are wearing a condom because it decreases sensation. Also, some men last longer when they use condoms that are specially coated with a mild anesthetic on the inside to desensitize the penis.

Prescription 95: Most sensitive point on mans body.

Que. What is the most sensitive point on a man's body? I want to give my boyfriend the best blowjob of his life!

Ans. The highest concentration of nerve endings of a man's body is on a particular part of his penis (no surprise there) called the "frenelum". This is the small strip of tissue on the underside, just beneath the head. Most men appreciate a well-timed (and placed) lick or tickle on this spot.

Prescription 96: Safe to have sex during periods?

Que. My wife wants sex every day, even when she has her periods and uses a tampon. Is that safe?

Ans. As long as neither one of you is uncomfortable about having sex during her periods, then, of course, you can get right to it! Since she's a tampon (rather than pad) user, remember to remove the tampon before having sex or hold on to the string during sex. Otherwise, the tampon can be pushed in enough that it may no longer be easily retrievable.

Prescription 97: Do penis enlargement pumps work?

Que. Do penis enlargement pumps work? If so, what kind do you recommend?

Ans. Penis enlargement pumps have been designed to help men whose erections are not as strong as they used to be. But if the pump is not used correctly, there can be loss of sensation, loss of penile skin and even gangrene. So if you are having trouble with erections, better see an urologist who can check, among other things, your blood flow. If your penis size is a problem for you, that is another issue entirely. The pump is only a temporary solution to small penis size. After the pumping, the penis will return to its regular size.

Prescription 98: Does girl lose her virginity due to Masturbation?

Question. I got engaged recently and have the following questions: 1) I have been masturbating regularly. Do I still qualify as a virgin? 2) Will my fiance find out about my masturbation habit when we have sex in the future? I want to be honest to my fiance. Please help.

Answer. 1) You do not lose your virginity because of masturbation. In fact, it is a safe way to calm your sexual desires. 2) Your fiance will not know (or care) unless, of course, you have inserted a finger or an object in your vagina which would have caused the hymen to split. A snoopy husband may want to know how.

Prescription 99: How to get rid of Mole on Penis?

Question. I am 26-year-old man. I have developed a mole on my penis. It’s dead skin that feels very uncomfortable when my girlfriend touches it or when she performs oral sex on me. Please suggest a cream to get rid of it.

Answer. Get it snipped off by a doctor. Medicines will not help.

Prescription 100: Boyfriend not satisfied with small brests.

Question. I am a 20 year old girl. My boyfriend keeps on telling me that I have small breasts and I don't satisfy him. Is there any solution to increase their size? I don't want to consult a doctor. I exercise daily too. Are there any creams available?

Answer. If he is dissatisfied, get rid of him. Find somebody who cares for you, however you look like. I wouldn't recommend any creams, you will have to live with what you have got.

Prescription 101: Splashing water at Vaginal area.

Question. I am an 18-year-old girl. I like splashing my vaginal area with water as it gives me intense pleasure. Will this cause a problem in my sex life, later?

Answer. No it will not. You are masturbating, in this novel way.

Prescription 102: Wife thinks sexually demanding husband is freak.

Question. I am a 30-year-old woman. I think my husband is a freak. While having sex, he wants me to suck his nipples and talk dirty. He wants to hear my innermost fantasies, even if I don’t have any. Is he normal? Please help.

Answer. He is no freak, millions of husbands wish their partners obliged. Your husband is absolutely normal. Think up fantasies and bad words - you will gain satisfying sex.

Prescription 103: Which sex position appropriate during pregnancy?

Question. My wife is six months pregnant. After intercourse she experiences lot of pain. Will the woman-on-top position be appropriate for us. Please help.

Answer. I suggest you try to enter from the rear while both of you are lying down. Do not try the woman-on-top position.

Prescription 104: Vagina becomes dry and no lubrication.

Question. I am 23 years old and my girlfriend is 22. She reaches orgasm when I perform oral sex on her. However, after that her vagina becomes dry and she isn't lubricated enough during intercourse. The lubrication is proper if she doesn't climax during oral sex. What's the reason for this?

Answer. She switches off! Wait for some more time before restarting. A lubricant can be of help.

Prescription 105: How to find out about partners satisfaction?

Question. How can I find out whether I have completely satisfied my partner or not after having an intercourse?

Answer. She can tell you if you have satisfied her. Otherwise, you can make out her nonverbal displeasure. Or you can see her having the same movements as yours when you get an orgasm except that she doesn't ejaculate.

Prescription 106: Does Masturbation harm memory and brain?

Question. I am a 26-year-old woman. I have been masturbating since I was five. I do it twice to thrice a day. I recently read somewhere that masturbation harms the memory and brain. Please tell me how much is too much.

Answer. It will certainly affect your personality if you start feeling guilty about what you are doing. There is nothing to feel guilty about. Masturbation is completely normal. Masturbation is good to relieve a sexual urge but not as a habit which you have made it. Develop your will power and grow up.

Prescription 107: Husband does not want to use condom.

Question. I am a 24-old-woman. My husband does not like to use a condom. Can I have an I-Pill instead? Also should it be consumed before or after the intercourse?

Answer. Insert a vaginal tablet TODAY 20 minutes before intercourse. However, it’s not 100 per cent effective. Do not take I-Pill regularly as it is meant to be used only in emergency. Instead take a low dose hormone pill like Ovral-L tablet under a doctor’s guidance. Your husband can use a condom from the 10th day of your menstruation to the 15th day, count from the 1st day. On other days you use TODAY.

Prescription 108: Medication available to cure premature ejacualtion.

Question. I got married recently. I am unable to have sex for more than two to three minutes. I ejaculate too soon. This is creating lot of problems in my married life. What do I do? Are there any medications available to cure this problem?

Answer. After entry into the vagina, do not start stroking immediately. Wait till you gain control and then stroke. Stop much before you wish to ejaculate. Repeat the procedure 10 to 15 times. Your condition will improve in four months. Take a course of NEO Tablets (Charak), one tablet, twice a day for four weeks.

Prescription 109: Having unsafe sex with boyfriend and taking Pills.

Question. I am a 21-year-old girl. I have been having unsafe sex with my boyfriend. But, always have a pill after the act. I have had six I-pills in December. Now, my periods are delayed. The pregnancy test has been negative. What do I do?

Answer. You have over medicated yourself. I-pill is advised only as an emergency contraceptive pill. Take a regular pill such as Mala-D or Ovral-L or else, your boyfriend must use a condom.

Prescription 110: Want a child after reversing Vasestomy.

Question. I underwent a vasectomy ten years ago at Apollo hospital and it was quite effective. Now my wife and I want to have a child. Please let us know whether the process could be reversed by having another operation done.

Answer. Reopening the vas is being done by microsurgery. The results depend on the experience of the surgeon. Despite the sperms returning, the fertility rate is low. Please think carefully before you make a decision. Adoption is also an option.

Prescription 112: Pregnant married girlfriend confused.

Question. I have sex with my married girlfriend two to three times a month. She also has sex with her husband. Initially we have unprotected sex but when I ejaculate I wear a condom. But a colourless liquid comes out of my penis during foreplay. My girlfriend is pregnant and she is confused as to whose baby it is. Please help, we are sextremely worried.

Answer. You are indulging in unsafe sex. The colourless liquid i.e. the precum fluid can have sperms. Either men could have caused the pregnancy.